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A matrimonial site for transsexuals

From the Times of India:

Kalki Subramanian is young, liberated and looking for an Indian man who is loving, compassionate, educated. Oh, and one more thing – he should be OK with marrying a transsexual.

But Kalki isn’t leaving her hopes for a suitable boy to destiny. The founder-director of the Sahodari foundation, that works for transgenders, is setting up a matrimonial website for transsexual women – the first of its kind in the world.

With the Internet matchmaking portal, to be launched on Thursday, she also hopes to create a debate about the issues of matrimony and adoption for transgenders. “There has to be legal clarity for transsexuals to live a better life. We have been discriminated against and exploited for very long”, she says.

Unlike, other dating services in the world, where transgenders are set up with other transgenders, www.thirunangai.net will give transsexual women a chance to find a man of their dreams. Thirunangai, incidentally, means respectable woman in Tamil.

In a country where the boundaries of sexual tolerance are shifting daily “especially after the Delhi HC has decriminalized homosexuality – there’s a thin line between acceptability and discrimination as far as transgenders are concerned. Hijras supposedly have a sanctioned place in Indian society with more than 4,00 years of recorded history. But the estimated 2,00,000 members of the community face harassment. More:

The sorrow and the pity

Ever since 1928, directors of all ages have adapted ‘Devdas’. The love affair continues, with two new versions in the pipeline. Sanjukta Sharma in Lounge:

The serpentine streets of Paharganj, teem and throb with people, bullock carts, honking horns, rattling motorcycles spewing black fumes and the collective hum of a million voices. This Delhi neighbourhood is a hub of European and Israeli budget travellers. But in director Anurag Kashyap’s next film Dev D, it is a microcosm of the world, a locus that propels the story and its characters.

From the panoramic view, his camera zooms into one corner of the frame, a run-down balcony where Chandramukhi, in between puffs of a cigarette, curiously looks out on to the streets. The interiors of the brothel where the college girl lives and works, her clothes and make-up are a riot of colours, mostly hues of pink. Kashyap’s Chandramukhi (the character decides to adopt that name while watching Madhuri Dixit in Sanjay Leela Bhansali’s Devdas) seems strikingly different from the Chandramukhi that Hindi film lovers have come to know from the many film versions of Devdas. Here, she comes across as sassy, even mean, yet deep and knowing. So, will she be the same self-sacrificing Chandramukhi we know?

[Photos: Chitrangada Singh (left) and Kalki.]

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